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--- On Thu, 7/28/11, Beenzu Simusa <BSimusa@zesco.co.zm> wrote:

From: Beenzu Simusa <BSimusa@zesco.co.zm>
Subject: Touching story on Marriage
To: "Siamusantu Beat" <beatchako@yahoo.com>, "clay wayanika" <claywayanika@yahoo.com>, "clement kayula" <clementkayula@yahoo.com>, "daphern shengamo" <dshengamo@gmail.com>, "francismwamba@hotmail.com" <francismwamba@hotmail.com>, "genesis@gossat.net" <genesis@gossat.net>, "Lillian.Liswaniso@zm.Airtel.com" <Lillian.Liswaniso@zm.Airtel.com>, "mulengajackie@gmail.com" <mulengajackie@gmail.com>, "Phillip.Musonda@lafarge-zm.lafarge.com" <Phillip.Musonda@lafarge-zm.lafarge.com>, "Pule Mofokeng" <pmofokeng@refraline.com>, "sohatid@yahoo.com" <sohatid@yahoo.com>
Date: Thursday, July 28, 2011, 12:55 PM

PLEASE READ TO THE END and DECIDE…

 

Lowla Dee

A touching story on marriage...

by Lowla Dee on Saturday, 07 August 2010 at 14:49

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said,
I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed
the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth
but I had to let her know what I
was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry
she threw away the chopsticks and
shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She
was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage.
But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to
Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she
could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten
years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted
time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved
Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had
expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of
divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer
now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the
table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast
because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so
I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything
from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in
that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her
reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want
to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how
I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our
bedroom to the front door ever
y morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to
make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought
it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce,
she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was
explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both
appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms.
His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then
to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes
and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling
somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I
could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this
woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There
were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its
toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning.
This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing
again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month
slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but
could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown
bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why
I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart.
Subconsciously
, I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him,
seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his
life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I
turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last
minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the
sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally.
I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my
arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly
and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I
was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane
opened the door and I said to her, Sorry Jane, I do not want the divorce
anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever?
She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry Jane, I said I won't divorce. My
marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of
our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that
since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her
until death do us apart.

Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the
door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife
. The
salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you
out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up
stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.

My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the
whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the
divorce.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband....


The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So
find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other
that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!


If you don't share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage.
Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to
success when they gave up and for those of us not married, we can learn the art of sticking together with your relationship partner despite the odds. You are both stronger than the odds only when you agree.

 

Hi, this isnt my own piece. I did not write this..no one knows the original source, it was fowarded to my mail but all I know is that this is a blessing that needs to spread round like wild fire!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

  

 
  

 

 

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ASPARTAME  POISONING 


 





SWEET POISON - A MUST READ
In October of 2001, my sister started getting very sick. She had stomach spasms and she was having a hard time getting around. Walking was a major chore. It took everything she had just to get out of bed; she was in so much pain.

By March 2002, she had undergone several tissue and muscle biopsies and was on 24 various prescription medications. The doctors could not determine what was wrong with her. She was in so much pain, and so sick. She just knew she was dying. She put her house, bank accounts, life insurance, etc., in her oldest daughter's name, and made sure that her younger children were to be taken care of.

She also wanted her last hooray, so she planned a trip to Florida (basically in a wheelchair) for March 22 nod.

On March 19 I called her to ask how her most recent tests went, and she said they didn't find anything on the test, but they believe she had MS.
I recalled an article a friend of mine e-mailed to me and I asked my sister if she drank diet soda? She told me that she did. As a matter of fact, she was getting ready to crack one open that moment.
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I e-mailed her the article my friend, a lawyer, had sent.
My sister called me within 32 hours after our phone conversation and told me she had stopped drinking the diet soda AND she could walk! The muscle spasms went away. She said she didn't feel 100% but she sure felt a lot better. She told me she was going to her doctor with this article and would call me when she got home.

Well, she called me, and said her doctor was amazed! He is going to call all of his MS patients to find out if they consumed artificial sweeteners of any kind.
In a nutshell, she was being poisoned by the Aspartame in the diet soda...and literally dying a slow and miserable death.

When she got to Florida March 22, all she had to take was one pill, and that was a pill for the Aspartame poisoning! She is well on her way to a complete recovery.
And she is walking! No wheelchair! This article saved her life.
If it says 'SUGAR FREE' on the label; DO NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT IT!
I have spent several days lecturing at the WORLD ENVIRONMENTAL CONFERENCE on 'ASPARTAME,' marketed as 'NutraSweet,' 'Equal,' and 'Spoonful.'

In the keynote address by the EPA, it was announced that in the United States in 2001 there is an epidemic of multiple sclerosis and systemic lupus. It was difficult to determine exactly what toxin was causing this to be rampant.
I stood up and said that I was there to lecture on exactly that subject.
I will explain why Aspartame is so dangerous: When the temperature of this sweetener exceeds 86 degrees F, the wood alcohol in ASPARTAME converts to formaldehyde and then to formic acid, which in turn causes metabolic acidosis. Formic acid is the poison found in the sting of fire ants. The methanol toxicity mimics, among other conditions, multiple sclerosis and systemic lupus. Many people were being diagnosed in error. Although multiple sclerosis is not a death sentence, Methanol toxicity is!

Systemic lupus has become almost as rampant as multiple sclerosis, especially with Diet Coke and Diet Pepsi drinkers. The victim usually does not know that the Aspartame is the culprit. He or she continues its use; irritating the lupus to such a degree that it may become a life-threatening condition.
We have seen patients with systemic lupus become asymptotic, once taken off diet sodas.

In cases of those diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis, most of the symptoms disappear. We've seen many cases where vision loss returned and hearing loss improved markedly.

This also applies to cases of tinnitus and fibromyalgia.
During a lecture, I said, 'If you are using ASPARTAME (NutraSweet, Equal, Spoonful, etc) and you suffer from fibromyalgia symptoms, spasms, shooting, pains, numbness in your legs, cramps, vertigo, dizziness, headaches, tinnitus, joint pain, unexplainable depression, anxiety attacks, slurred speech, blurred vision, or memory loss you probably have ASPARTAME poisoning!'
People were jumping up during the lecture saying, 'I have some of these symptoms. Is it reversible?'

Yes! Yes! Yes! STOP drinking diet sodas and be alert for Aspartame on food labels! Many products are fortified with it! This is a serious problem.
Dr. Esparto (one of my speakers) remarked that so many people seem to be symptomatic for MS and during his recent visit to a hospice, a nurse stated that six of her friends, who were heavy Diet Coke addicts, had all been diagnosed with MS. This is beyond coincidence!


Diet soda is NOT a diet product! It is a chemically altered, multiple SODIUM (salt) and ASPARTAME containing product that actually makes you crave carbohydrates. It is far more likely to make you GAIN weight!
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These products also contain formaldehyde, which stores in the fat cells, particularly in the hips and thighs. Formaldehyde is an absolute toxin andis used primarily to preserve 'tissue specimens.' Many products we use every day contain this chemical but we SHOULD NOT store it IN our body!


Dr. H. J. Roberts stated in his lectures that once free of the 'diet products' and with no significant increase in exercise; his patients lost an average of 19 pounds over a trial period.


Aspartame is especially dangerous for diabetics.
We found that some physicians, who believed that they had a patient with retinopathy, in fact, had symptoms caused by Aspartame.
The Aspartame drives the bloodsugar out of control. Thus diabetics may suffer acute memory loss due to the fact that aspartic acid and phenylalanine are NEUROTOXIC when taken without the other amino acids necessary for a good balance.

Treating diabetes is all about BALANCE. Especially with diabetics, the Aspartame passes the blood/brain barrier and it then deteriorates the neurons of the brain; causing various levels of brain damage, seizures, depression, manic depression, panic attacks, uncontrollable anger and rage.

Consumption of Aspartame causes these same symptoms in non-diabetics as well.
Documentation and observation also reveal that thousands of children diagnosed with ADD and ADHD have had complete turnarounds in their behavior when these chemicals have been removed from their diet. So called 'behavior modification prescription drugs' (Ritalin and others) are no longer needed. Truth be told, they were never NEEDED in the first place! Most of these children were being 'poisoned' on a daily basis with the very foods that were 'better for them than sugar.'

It is also suspected that the Aspartame in thousands of pallets of diet Coke and diet Pepsi consumed by men and women fighting in the Gulf War, may be partially to blame for the well-known Gulf War Syndrome.

Dr. Roberts warns that it can cause birth defects, i.e . mental retardation, if taken at the time of conception and during early pregnancy.
Children are especially at risk for neurological disorders and should NEVER be given artificial sweeteners. There are many different case histories to relate of children suffering grand mal seizures and other neurological disturbances talking about a plague of neurological diseases directly caused by the use of this deadly poison.'

Herein lies the problem:
There were Congressional Hearings when Aspartame was included 100 different products and strong objection was made concerning its use. Since this initial hearing, there have been two subsequent hearings, and still nothing has been done. The drug and chemical lobbies have very deep pockets.

Sadly, MONSANTO'S patent on Aspartame has EXPIRED!
There are now over 5,000 products on the market that contain this deadly chemical and there will be thousands more introduced. Everybody wants a 'piece of the Aspartame pie.' I assure you that MONSANTO, the creator of Aspartame, knows how deadly it is.

And isn't it ironic that MONSANTO funds, among others, the American Diabetes Association, the American Dietetic Association and the Conference of the American College of Physicians?

This has been recently exposed in the New York Times.
These [organizations] cannot criticize any additives or convey their link to MONSANTO because they take money from the food industry and are required to endorse their products.

Senator Howard Metzenbaum wrote and presented a bill that would require label warnings on products containing Aspartame, especially regarding pregnant women, children and infants. The bill would also institute independent studies on the known dangers and the problems existing in the general population regarding seizures, changes in brain chemistry, neurological changes and behavioral symptoms.
The bill was killed.

It is known that the powerful drug and chemical lobbies are responsible for this, letting loose the hounds of disease and death on an unsuspecting and uninformed public. Well, you're Informed now! YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO KNOW!



Please e-mail to your family and friends

__________________________________________________

 

YO KATUNDU!! Was this a nice jersy?

 

From: cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com [mailto:cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com] On Behalf Of Mwamba Kalaba
Sent: Friday, July 29, 2011 3:13 PM
To: cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com
Subject: Re: [cbu-1994-class] Down Memory lane-CBU Days

 

Pliz Note That

--- On Fri, 7/29/11, tmusuku@worldbank.org <tmusuku@worldbank.org> wrote:


From: tmusuku@worldbank.org <tmusuku@worldbank.org>
Subject: Re: [cbu-1994-class] Down Memory lane-CBU Days
To: cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com
Date: Friday, July 29, 2011, 4:49 AM

Wow!!!! everyone was on monk sausage diet - before all the acquired tastes for processed and waist busting foods.

Now, as I recall it, this was Mindolo Dam (in our forth year) and not Mwekera (in our first year). Send out more!!!!

Inactive hide details for smaimbo---07/29/2011 02:25:09 AM---Wow! What can I say?! Samuel Munzele Maimbo, Lead Financial Sectorsmaimbo---07/29/2011 02:25:09 AM---Wow! What can I say?! Samuel Munzele Maimbo, Lead Financial Sector Specialist, AFRICA Finance &


From:


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To:


cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com


Cc:


cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com


Date:


07/29/2011 02:25 AM


Subject:


Re: [cbu-1994-class] Down Memory lane-CBU Days


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Wow! What can I say?!

Samuel Munzele Maimbo
, Lead Financial Sector Specialist, AFRICA Finance & Private Sector Department Ÿ' +1-202-473-9434, Ÿ' +1-571-228-0662

From:

Mwamba Kalaba <kalabamwa@yahoo.com>

To:

cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com

Date:

07/28/2011 02:45 AM

Subject:

[cbu-1994-class] Down Memory lane-CBU Days

Sent by:

cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com

 


 

Bashi Kabwe,Denny, Was this a last minute pounding?

Bashi Chikange, Maricel ,you remember the Mwekera outing?

Wilsy, Lloyd, Chikusi ,.............you remember the after the game come together at Opio's place?

Maimbo,.............. you remember the Mindolo Dam Outing?
Can We have more photos coming guys, Ba Mabo are we there?


Mwamba



[attachment "CBU Days.pdf" deleted by Thilasoni Benjamin Musuku/Person/World Bank]

 

Pliz Note That

--- On Fri, 7/29/11, tmusuku@worldbank.org <tmusuku@worldbank.org> wrote:

From: tmusuku@worldbank.org <tmusuku@worldbank.org>
Subject: Re: [cbu-1994-class] Down Memory lane-CBU Days
To: cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com
Date: Friday, July 29, 2011, 4:49 AM

Wow!!!! everyone was on monk sausage diet - before all the acquired tastes for processed and waist busting foods.

Now, as I recall it, this was Mindolo Dam (in our forth year) and not Mwekera (in our first year). Send out more!!!!

Inactive hide details for smaimbo---07/29/2011 02:25:09 AM---Wow! What can I say?! Samuel Munzele Maimbo, Lead Financial Sectorsmaimbo---07/29/2011 02:25:09 AM---Wow! What can I say?! Samuel Munzele Maimbo, Lead Financial Sector Specialist, AFRICA Finance &


From:

smaimbo@worldbank.org

To:

cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com

Cc:

cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com

Date:

07/29/2011 02:25 AM

Subject:

Re: [cbu-1994-class] Down Memory lane-CBU Days

Sent by:

cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com








Wow! What can I say?!

Samuel Munzele Maimbo
, Lead Financial Sector Specialist, AFRICA Finance & Private Sector Department Ÿ' +1-202-473-9434, Ÿ' +1-571-228-0662

From: Mwamba Kalaba <kalabamwa@yahoo.com>
To: cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com
Date: 07/28/2011 02:45 AM
Subject: [cbu-1994-class] Down Memory lane-CBU Days
Sent by: cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com




Bashi Kabwe,Denny, Was this a last minute pounding?

Bashi Chikange, Maricel ,you remember the Mwekera outing?

Wilsy, Lloyd, Chikusi ,.............you remember the after the game come together at Opio's place?

Maimbo,.............. you remember the Mindolo Dam Outing?
Can We have more photos coming guys, Ba Mabo are we there?


Mwamba


[attachment "CBU Days.pdf" deleted by Thilasoni Benjamin Musuku/Person/World Bank]

Wow! This is really so lovely pics guys!!!!!!!!!
 
Martin 

From: Mwamba Kalaba <kalabamwa@yahoo.com>
To: cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com
Sent: Thursday, July 28, 2011 8:45 AM
Subject: [cbu-1994-class] Down Memory lane-CBU Days
Bashi Kabwe,Denny, Was this a last minute pounding?
 
Bashi Chikange, Maricel ,you remember the Mwekera outing?
 
Wilsy, Lloyd, Chikusi ,.............you remember the after the game come together at Opio's place?
 
Maimbo,.............. you remember the Mindolo Dam Outing?
Can We have more photos coming guys, Ba Mabo are we there?
 
 
Mwamba 
 

Wow!!!! everyone was on monk sausage diet - before all the acquired tastes for processed and waist busting foods.

Now, as I recall it, this was Mindolo Dam (in our forth year) and not Mwekera (in our first year). Send out more!!!!

Inactive hide details for smaimbo---07/29/2011 02:25:09 AM---Wow! What can I say?! Samuel Munzele Maimbo, Lead Financial Sectorsmaimbo---07/29/2011 02:25:09 AM---Wow! What can I say?! Samuel Munzele Maimbo, Lead Financial Sector Specialist, AFRICA Finance &


From:

smaimbo@worldbank.org

To:

cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com

Cc:

cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com

Date:

07/29/2011 02:25 AM

Subject:

Re: [cbu-1994-class] Down Memory lane-CBU Days

Sent by:

cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com








Wow! What can I say?!

Samuel Munzele Maimbo
, Lead Financial Sector Specialist, AFRICA Finance & Private Sector Department Ÿ' +1-202-473-9434, Ÿ' +1-571-228-0662

From: Mwamba Kalaba <kalabamwa@yahoo.com>
To: cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com
Date: 07/28/2011 02:45 AM
Subject: [cbu-1994-class] Down Memory lane-CBU Days
Sent by: cbu-business-class-1994@googlegroups.com




Bashi Kabwe,Denny, Was this a last minute pounding?

Bashi Chikange, Maricel ,you remember the Mwekera outing?

Wilsy, Lloyd, Chikusi ,.............you remember the after the game come together at Opio's place?

Maimbo,.............. you remember the Mindolo Dam Outing?
Can We have more photos coming guys, Ba Mabo are we there?


Mwamba


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