From: Precious Njikho
Sent: Tuesday, June 07, 2011 5:02 PM
To: Catherine Matabwa; Jane Mphande; Madalitso Disi; Myness Ndambo; Chance Mkandawire; Martha Moyo; Kulinji Sungeni; Batrete Mwatsika; Blandina Saliji
Subject: FW: Viva the age of freedom!!
Subject: FW: Viva the age of freedom!!
Subject: FW: Viva the age of freedom
I would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life, my loving family for less gray hair or a flatter belly. As I've aged, I've become kinder to myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend. I don't chide myself for eating that extra cookie, or for not making my bed, I am entitled to a treat, to be messy, to be extravagant.
I have seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon; before they understood the great freedom that comes with aging.
Whose business is it if I choose to read or play on the computer until 4 AM and sleep until noon ? I will dance with myself to those wonderful tunes of the 60 & 70's, and if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost love ..... I will.
I know I am sometimes forgetful. But there again, some of life is just as well forgotten. And I eventually remember the important things.
Sure, over the years my heart has been broken. How can your heart not break when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers, But broken hearts are what give us strength and understanding and compassion. A heart never broken is pristine and sterile and will never know the joy of being imperfect.
I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turning gray, and to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on my face.
So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair could turn silver.
As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less about what other people think. I don't question myself anymore. I've even earned the right to be wrong.
So, to answer your question, I like being old. It has set me free. I like the person I have become. I am not going to live forever, but while I am still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or worrying about what will be.
MAY OUR FRIENDSHIP NEVER COME APART,
Forward this to at least 7 people and see what happens on your screen. You will laugh your head off!!!!!!!!!!!
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